Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Top 6 Ways To Be Positive

Top 6 Ways To Be Positive 

1. You should always keep your mind open to good things and close it to the bad. If your mind is full of lots of negativity you should try and distance yourself from that negativity. You could get rid of it by writing down something that makes you happy, or something that your grateful for.
2. Go easy on yourself. There might be times where you think your life really sucks, or you might be blaming things on yourself that you didn't do. Trying to get rid of self- criticism is an important way to be positive. If you get rid of that little critic inside your head, you will be more apt to be positive. One way you could get rid of self criticism is to practice self-love. If your one of those people who puts themselves down this would be a great way to be positive. 
3. Figure out life's meaning. Some people believe life has a meaning, and those people would believe that tend to be more positive and happy. So maybe you should try to find what life means to you. The most meaningful part of my life is knowing that i have friends and family that care about me as much as i care about them.
4. Share your happy thoughts. If you say something positive to someone else   it will make you feel happy. For instance, instead of engaging negative conversations try to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones like, "That looks good on you", or "hope you have a good day."
5.Make a journal. Writing a journal can help you wash those stubborn negative stains away. Don't worry if your the only one that does that, I sometimes write in a journal. Writing helps me let out any extra steam that I need to get out. Just imagine your journal being a safe. what every negative things you write down will get locked away forever.
6.Let it go. Some things are hard to forget, for example losing a loved one like a family member or a boyfriend/girlfriend that you really liked. everyone has something that that are trying to forget or let go. It's not easy, trust me I know what that feels like. You try your best and let those negative things go but you can't. Well, let me tell you something. If you keep those negative thoughts stewing up in that pot of yours, things are going to get worse. Just keep trying to let go of those things. eventually things will get a lot better. It won't get better at the snap of your fingers, but with time those negative thoughts or memories will turn into positive ones.


     

6 comments:

  1. These are really good steps to be positive. I really liked number two, when you were saying to practice self love instead of self criticism. I think a lot of people could benefit from that. *cough cough me.

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  2. I really like the message your trying to send and I think that you are a amazing person to think like that and I love your mindset!!:) KEEP IT UP CHICKA

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  3. This is awsomee and beautiful. Very inspiring. Wish I could bottle some!!

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  4. This is awsomee and beautiful. Very inspiring. Wish I could bottle some!!

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  5. WOW I love all of these I really like the one where it says Let it Go because so many people keep grudges and don't forgive. Which is really hurting themselves not the other person in the long run.

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